The 928 is a sissy car.
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oh yeah... and the flak you get doesnt always go away even when you marry em..... my father in law has been attempting to give my wife & I both grief for 25 years now about my choices of cars.... all the while even now at 65 he owns seven motorcycles and a 40+ foot $200k motorhome(paid cash no less!)..... yet we "waste our $$" on sportscars according to him! So that "competition for the daughter's affections" doesnt go away with some dads! We've learned to give him every bit as much grief back at him using his own logic he tries to use on us. He always starts it & can't go long without trying to rib us about the futility of us owning such cars, but I long ago learned how to banter back with him & shutting him up in a calm, sarcastic banter, all the while without really offending him. Good Luck!
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It could be worse.... he could be one that doesn't understand cars at all, especially your love for them, regardless of it being a Porsche 928 or not. He could be one that wonders the sense in a teenager wanting such a vehicle(how can I call a 928 a "vehicle".. please forgive me all).... And... he could be worried about his daughter riding around with a 16 year old male who's behind the wheel of a supercar that in the hands of many could be very quickly very deadly.
I'd definately say that if you wish to continue dating his daughter without flak from him, DO NOT challenge him in a race of any kind, verbal or otherwise. That doesn't instill confidence in him of the male he has to intrust with his daughter. I say let it go as best you can....he's just jealous that his little girl is now interested in some male other than daddy & in his own way he's just trying to get her to notice that dad is cooler somehow still. If you & her last any length of time & you show respect to him & his daughter, you will have your chances to win him over towards your 928. Most who havent driven one or know little about them haven't learned yet how incredible they are. In all reality, you might be better off if he does think of it as puny.
Myself.....well... as for my 16 year old daughter, I'm not so sure I'd want her dating a guy driving any supercar at this age. The guy she eventually marries...well yeah.. that'd be great if he is a car guy, of any kind, especially a Porsche 928! But not at 16. Heck, my wife & I are happy that her boyfriend doesnt even have his permanent license yet. Not that you cant have a poor driver of any age wrap a Caprice around a telephone pole, or a talented teenage driver drive safe with a supercar. But lets look at averages.... most 16 year old males do not need to be driving around hoping to impress their female counterparts in a supercar. Least, not from the standpoint of most parents of those 16 yr old females! If he is your "competition" for her affections, to know your adversary & their standpoint goes a long way to be the one who wins out in the end... and that has nothing to do with who's car is a sissy car or who'd win in a race. And in the meantime, as you said..... You ARE dating his daugher!
I'd definately say that if you wish to continue dating his daughter without flak from him, DO NOT challenge him in a race of any kind, verbal or otherwise. That doesn't instill confidence in him of the male he has to intrust with his daughter. I say let it go as best you can....he's just jealous that his little girl is now interested in some male other than daddy & in his own way he's just trying to get her to notice that dad is cooler somehow still. If you & her last any length of time & you show respect to him & his daughter, you will have your chances to win him over towards your 928. Most who havent driven one or know little about them haven't learned yet how incredible they are. In all reality, you might be better off if he does think of it as puny.
Myself.....well... as for my 16 year old daughter, I'm not so sure I'd want her dating a guy driving any supercar at this age. The guy she eventually marries...well yeah.. that'd be great if he is a car guy, of any kind, especially a Porsche 928! But not at 16. Heck, my wife & I are happy that her boyfriend doesnt even have his permanent license yet. Not that you cant have a poor driver of any age wrap a Caprice around a telephone pole, or a talented teenage driver drive safe with a supercar. But lets look at averages.... most 16 year old males do not need to be driving around hoping to impress their female counterparts in a supercar. Least, not from the standpoint of most parents of those 16 yr old females! If he is your "competition" for her affections, to know your adversary & their standpoint goes a long way to be the one who wins out in the end... and that has nothing to do with who's car is a sissy car or who'd win in a race. And in the meantime, as you said..... You ARE dating his daugher!
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Ross,
Mel has a point. Don't challenge the dad. Especially to a race. That would not help your cause. But I do like the idea of letting him borrow your car. That would be a nice gesture and he could see why you like the 928. But I have a feeling that he will be a little disapointed going from a manual viper to an automatic 928. But he will still enjoy himself. The biggest thing is that at this age in his daughters life he is starting to see his daughters attention focus on another male, maybe for the first time in her life. She is growing up and thats hard for some dad's to take gracefully. Be polite and respectfull to him, and treat his daughter like he would treat her, and you will be golden. Get in good with the parents and things will be easier for you in the long run. Good Luck !
Mel has a point. Don't challenge the dad. Especially to a race. That would not help your cause. But I do like the idea of letting him borrow your car. That would be a nice gesture and he could see why you like the 928. But I have a feeling that he will be a little disapointed going from a manual viper to an automatic 928. But he will still enjoy himself. The biggest thing is that at this age in his daughters life he is starting to see his daughters attention focus on another male, maybe for the first time in her life. She is growing up and thats hard for some dad's to take gracefully. Be polite and respectfull to him, and treat his daughter like he would treat her, and you will be golden. Get in good with the parents and things will be easier for you in the long run. Good Luck !
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Dude..go out and get some track time..some DE's ...some skills days...and then take him out to the track with his Viper.....
Wanna bet a well driven 928 will beat a poorly driven Viper....??.... I bet it would...
later,
Tom
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Wanna bet a well driven 928 will beat a poorly driven Viper....??.... I bet it would...
later,
Tom
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But I do like the idea of letting him borrow your car.
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Dude,
You own an 1987 S4, very nice! Ask this buttnut what kind of cars Dodge was producing in 1987? How about a Laser, what a joke. Where was the Viper in 87? nowhere Dodge was too busy making junk for the masses, while Porsche was producing only the best. Vipers are great for the track but what took Dodge so long(duh we better make a sports car!). Porsche always has and always will be at the forefront of design and technology. Oh and those trucks, come on now, another gimmicky vehicle, reminds me of another crappy Dodge product the PT cruiser retro look thing. Chev should be ashamed of the HHR
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You own an 1987 S4, very nice! Ask this buttnut what kind of cars Dodge was producing in 1987? How about a Laser, what a joke. Where was the Viper in 87? nowhere Dodge was too busy making junk for the masses, while Porsche was producing only the best. Vipers are great for the track but what took Dodge so long(duh we better make a sports car!). Porsche always has and always will be at the forefront of design and technology. Oh and those trucks, come on now, another gimmicky vehicle, reminds me of another crappy Dodge product the PT cruiser retro look thing. Chev should be ashamed of the HHR
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See my avator? I gave up vipers........No class, No Finesse, 160MPH top speed MAYBE, sick sound, and now can have its doors blown away buy vehicles half as much in price... As fo rthe SSR OMG let him have it, that must be the fugliest car in existance.
928 or 911 pure sex in its finished form,
928 or 911 pure sex in its finished form,
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Sissy car? In another thread you are contemplating trading your 928 for a 914. If he thinks the 928 is a sissy car what will he say about the 914?
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These threads are pointless. If you buy things fearing what other people think you are going to either have a very unhappy life or end up buying what everyone else has. Thicker skin is a prerequisite for bucking the trend. Personally I don't give a rats *** what others think. I buy for "MY" needs and satisfaction not anyone elses.
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Tell him what really attracted you to a 928 is that you can put the back seats down, and all that space under the rear hatch makes into a great bed.
Then give him a smile and a wink.
Then give him a smile and a wink.