I do have to say some cars are easier than others. E90 M3 I always got stuck in the reverse detent. E36 never. GT4 used to be never but then it happened a few times. I need to focus on shifting more deliberately and delicately.

 

I have a tendency to pull the shifter towards my body when driving hard. I get into the reverse detent in my E90 often on the 1-2 shift while hooning. Momentum killer.