Wow Odie,
I just realized you had sent me this message on my profile page which I haven't looked at in a long time.
I added H&R springs to slightly lower the car and I'm really pleased. It's not too low, but definitely better than stock ride height. The wheels are HRE P101's and I can't remember what the offsets are. I exchanged emails with an HRE resource who eventually put me in touch with a dealer of their's down in South Florida. The offsets essentially match the factory even after adding the extra width front and back.
Like me, you and others, we're looking to have our cars look they way we want and I've accomplished that.
Cheers!