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Old 12-31-2007, 10:32 PM
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Thanks to all who took the time to post. I think it is because you don't have to see the the tears in my eyes as I read each post that makes this 928 family so important to me.

My year was horrible on many fronts, but i knew Lyle's was worse than I would wish on my worst enemy. It makes me grateful to have found this little patch of misfits like me.LOL

Here's to a better 2008, may we find the time to respect and honour the ones we love.

Wishing all of you the best in 2008

Sincerely,
Old 12-31-2007, 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted by 69gaugeman
Thanks to all who took the time to post. I think it is because you don't have to see the the tears in my eyes as I read each post that makes this 928 family so important to me.

My year was horrible on many fronts, but i knew Lyle's was worse than I would wish on my worst enemy. It makes me grateful to have found this little patch of misfits like me.LOL

Here's to a better 2008, may we find the time to respect and honour the ones we love.

Wishing all of you the best in 2008

Sincerely,
Chin up!
Old 12-31-2007, 10:39 PM
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Rod-
Sorry to hear about your friend. Focus on the good times and those qualities that made him special to you. If that doesn't work, we can get rip snortin' drunk one ofthese days!
Old 12-31-2007, 10:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Andrew Olson
Rod-
Sorry to hear about your friend. Focus on the good times and those qualities that made him special to you. If that doesn't work, we can get rip snortin' drunk one ofthese days!
Just one?
Old 12-31-2007, 10:42 PM
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ok... several.
Old 01-02-2008, 06:42 AM
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Very sorry for you loss Rod, my heartfelt condolances.

Way way too early for your friend to pass away, and a poignant reminder not to put things off for too long; we never know how much time we have here.

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Old 01-02-2008, 11:17 AM
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Rod,

I'm very sorry about your loss. Hang in there. If you want to get together for a beer or two, just let me know. I'm just around the corner from you.
Old 01-02-2008, 05:43 PM
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Imre, I may take you up on that later this week.
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Rod,... go do something for someone that he'd have done. That will
make him 'live again', at least in your life.

Very sorry for your sadness and his family's loss.

G'luck.
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My condolences, Rod! I hope you can remember and celebrate many good times you had together with Lyle. May he rest in peace!

This doesn't seem to be the best week for friends and families of 928 owners. Today, I got notice that the mother of a good friend and fellow 928-owner had passed.

Please be careful out there!
Old 01-02-2008, 10:04 PM
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Im sorry for your loss. I know what your going through. I lost my best friend from High School as well. No words can express. You will always carry the memories and he will live on in your heart.
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Rod ... sorry to hear of your losss especially at this time of year. May his memory live on.
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Sincerest condolences, Rod.

One of the ironies of life is bestowed upon those who have the capacity to develop deep relationships with others. With great friendships comes great pain upon their loss.
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Amazing the outpouring of support and empathy on this list. It looks like you came to the right place.

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Originally Posted by dcmelik
Amazing the outpouring of support and empathy on this list. It looks like you came to the right place.

I agree. This is the greatest bunch of people.

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Rod,
I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I lost a very good friend that I work with last Thursday.... he was a great person, loving father, and a fellow Porsche enthusiest as well. He had several 914's as well as several Jag's.... including a e type.... Its been less than a week..... and I feel a huge emptyness in my heart when I think about him being gone.

Don't take one single day for granted..... nor your friends, families or what ever it is that you value. there are no garantee's.
Those words have never meant so much to me as now.

Even though I was aware he was going to pass, nothing prepares you when they are gone so young. You always think, well I can see them later. unfortunately that is not always true.

This is the first person that I was close to in age and emotion, that has passed and it definitely hurts.

Again, thanks so very much for all your compassion and good wishes.

Without Lyle, most likely I wouldn't even know this place existed. He was the one to turn me on to 928's.


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